Red Flags & Green Flags

Roaching

Hiding the fact that you are still seeing other people, then claiming you never agreed to be exclusive once caught.

What it actually means

Named after the idea that for every excuse you see, there are more hidden. They dodge the exclusivity talk on purpose.

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What to do about it

Have the exclusivity conversation out loud and early. Silence is not a free pass to keep a secret roster.