Red Flags & Green Flags

Future Faking

Making big promises about a shared future with no intention of keeping them, used to keep you invested now.

What it actually means

Talk of holidays, moving in, even kids, all within weeks. The plans sound real but never turn into anything concrete.

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What to do about it

Judge them on what they actually do, not what they promise. Patterns of follow-through matter far more than pretty words.